
Due to the ease of access and the largely public display of information, cyber-bullying has become one of the biggest problems facing teens today. Over one third of teens say that they have been affected by cyber-bullying. Technology allows conversations that were previously private to no longer hold any promise of secrecy. A private email conversation can be forwarded to a listserv of a 100 of your closest friends with only a few clicks of a button and within minutes. In the case of Megan Meier, a 13 year old who faced depression, cyber-bullying was taken to far, to a point where she committed suicide. After a parent of a neighboring child posed as an attractive 16 year old boy who stated that he had a crush on Megan, he “dumped” her, calling her all sorts of names. End: hung herself by a belt. Read the full story here. As a growing number of bullying cases leave the class room and enter the world wide web where can the discipline take place? Who is the principle of the internet that will sent the offending children/parents to detention?
For those of you who let it “loose” on the internet, hiding behind the nameless and faceless screen, it’s time to think again. Your facebook and myspace profiles will now be a part of your resume. Resumes state your work and school history, but it says very little about who you are as a person. Employers are now looking at facebook and myspace profiles to find our more about a potential employee. So while your Harvard degree may look awfully pretty on that paper, will it really matter when they see how you talk to people are what your “extra curricular” activities are? One documented case of a picture on mypace affecting a job position is that of Stacy Snyer. A 27 year old who on the eve of her graduation was denied her degree in education. Her offence? She had a picture of herself on Halloween dressed as a pirate - and drinking. They claimed her to be unfit to teach because she promoted underage drinking (important note* there was no underagers in this photo) So remember next time you post a picture…. A picture is worth a thousand words, and you never know who is looking.
The line between a virtual word and the “real” world is increasingly becoming blurred. Everyday we see our real lives affected by the internet, weather it’s a comment on Myspace that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, and an employer that will no longer consider hiring you because of some scandalous photos. Yet does this mean that the facelessness and lack of identity by hiding behind the computer is also being blurred?
Steiner, Emily. "MySpace Photo Costs Teacher Education Degree." Washington Post. 1 May 2007. 2 Dec. 2007
"Megan Meier, MySpace, Bad Parents and Sick Adults: When Should Cyberbullying Be Considered a Crime?" Blogher. 18 Nov. 2007. 2 Dec. 2007
